[This paper was written by a group of women in the fall of 1964 and submitted anonymously at the SNCC meeting in Waveland, Mississippi. At least three of the women have written about that experience, Mary King in Freedom Song, and Elaine DeLott Baker and Casey Hayden in Deep in Our Hearts: Nine White Women in the Freedom Movement. Their stories all correct inaccuracies in Sara Evans's account in the 1979 book, Personal Politics: The Roots of Women's Liberation in the Civil Rights Movement and the New Left. Chude Allen]
Undoubtedly this list will seem strange to some, petty to others,
laughable to most. The list could continue as far as there are women in
the movement. Except that most women don't talk about these kinds of
incidents, because the whole subject is not
discussible strange to
some, petty to others, laughable to most.
The average white person finds
it difficult to understand why the Negro resents being called "boy," or
being thought of as "musical" and "athletic," because the average white
person doesn't realize that he assumes he is superior. And
naturally
he doesn't understand the problem of paternalism. So too the average
SNCC worker finds it difficult to discuss the woman problem because of
the assumptions of male superiority. Assumptions of male superiority are
as widespread and deep rooted and every much as crippling to the woman
as the assumptions of white supremacy are to the Negro. Consider why it
is in SNCC that women who are competent, qualified, and experienced, are
automatically assigned to the "female" kinds of jobs such as typing,
desk work, telephone work, filing, library work, cooking, and the
assistant kind of administrative work but rarely the "executive" kind.
The woman in SNCC is often in the same position as that token Negro
hired in a corporation. The management thinks that it has done its bit.
Yet, every day the Negro bears an atmosphere, attitudes and actions
which are tinged with condescension and paternalism, the most telling of
which are when he is not promoted as the equally or less skilled whites
are. This paper is anonymous. Think about the kinds of things the
author, if made known, would have to suffer because of raising this kind
of discussion. Nothing so final as being fired or outright exclusion,
but the kinds of things which are killing to the
insides insinuations,
ridicule, over-exaggerated compensations.
This paper is presented anyway because it needs to be made know[n] that
many women in the movement are not "happy and contented" with their
status. It needs to be made known that much talent and experience are
being wasted by this movement when women are not given jobs commensurate
with their abilities. It needs to be known that just as Negroes were the
crucial factor in the economy of the cotton South, so too in SNCC are
women the crucial factor that keeps the movement running on a day-to-day
basis. Yet they are not given equal say-so when it comes to day-to-day
decisionmaking. What can be done? Probably nothing right away. Most men
in this movement are probably too threatened by the possibility of
serious discussion on this subject. Perhaps this is because they have
recently broken away from a matriarchal framework under which they may
have grown up. Then too, many women are as unaware and insensitive to
this subject as men, just as there are many Negroes who don't understand
they are not free or who want to be part of white America. They don't
understand that they have to give up their souls and stay in their place
to be accepted. So too, many women, in order to be accepted by men, on
men's terms, give themselves up to that caricature of what a woman
is unthinking, pliable, an ornament to please the man.
Maybe the only thing that can come out of this paper is
discussion amidst the laughter but still
discussion. (Those who laugh
the hardest are often those who need the crutch of male supremacy the
most.) And maybe some women will begin to recognize day-to-day
discriminations. And maybe sometime in the future the whole of the women
in this movement will become so alert as to force the rest of the
movement to stop the discrimination and start the slow process of
changing values and ideas so that all of us gradually come to understand
that this is no more a man's world than it is a white world.
November, 1964
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Paper: Women in the Movement
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